My Philosophy of Life

Life is not about pleasing others, proving yourself, or chasing validation. It’s about preserving your peace, protecting your energy, and living with intention. Through experiences—both gentle and harsh—I’ve come to believe in moving quietly, loving wisely, and walking away when necessary. This philosophy isn’t born out of bitterness, but clarity. It's a way of living that prioritizes inner peace over external noise.

If they don't ask for your opinion, don't open your mouth.

→ Why? Because unsolicited advice is rarely welcomed. People only hear when they’re ready to listen.

If they don't treat you well, walk away without taking any action.

→ Why? Because action takes energy, and some people aren’t worth that energy. Protect your peace by disengaging, not reacting.

Before making others happy, make yourself happy.

→ Why? Because people often take more than they give. If you aren't whole, giving to others only empties you further. Fill your own cup first.

Earn your own money.

→ Why? Because financial independence is freedom. When you earn your own, no one can control your choices or your dignity.

Have some good habits.

→ Why? Because life isn’t meant to be just work and survival. Good habits anchor you, give structure to chaos, and help you grow beyond just existing.

Have some distant friends of the same interests.

→ Why? Because solitude is essential, but connection is human. You don’t need many, just a few who get your soul without explanation.

Walk away from the relationship where there is no respect.

→ Why? Because respect is the foundation of any bond. Without it, even love feels like a cage.

Don’t take everything personally.

→ Why? Because most things aren’t about you. Taking things personally creates suffering where there could’ve been understanding—or simple detachment.